How can I make a guy want me?

You can't make him act like the other guys & you can't make him like you. This is something you need to learn about people. Do yourself a favor & you'll be much happier. Just join in playing the games you like, with the friends you have, & leave this guy alone. Guys don't like girls who try to change them. They are who they are & they have to be accepted & respected for that.